Asalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu ladies
When I think about my own journey with hijab, I vividly remember being told when I needed to wear hijab, but not so much why I should wear it. I wanted to cement a memory for my girls, a deep heart to heart discussion that they would remember inshaAllah. So, since my daughters love having a girls night in, I thought I would make it extra special and have an evening themed ‘My Hijab and Me’.
I prepared some questions that I wanted to cover the night before.
Then while the girls were outside, I set up the table with cupcakes, icing, henna and candles to make it extra cosy.
And that was it…
Allahuma barik, we had the most wonderful evening discussing hijab while decorating cupcakes and putting on some henna. The girls tried on jilbab, and niqab, we went through the mushaf reading out ayaat where Allah mentions hijaab, and the girls had an opportunity to ask me anything they wanted relating to hijab.
Im sure we will revisit hijab again in a more structured way, but I’m hoping this evening was something my girls would remember and is the beginning of a lifelong love and understanding of our beautiful hijab.
You can download the questions we used here.
I would love to know how you introduced and explained hijab to your girls, share your experiences in the comments below!