Assalamu alaykum sisters,
It’s that time of year again where most homeschooling families are wrapping up their current school year and busily planning for the next.
In the midst of researching curriculum, lesson planning, stationary hauls and typing up weekly schedules, it’s all too easy to lose sight of those goals we set a mere couple of weeks ago.
Those goals we set in the last third of the night…
The schedules we jotted down after finishing Taraweeh…
The daily practices we began to implement and promised ourselves we would carry on…
Yes, I’m talking about our post-Ramadan goals.
Ramadan – seems like only yesterday that we were planning its arrival and yet it seems like it was months ago.
After the excitement of Eid wears off and we start to find our feet again, old habits start to creep back in.
As mother’s, and specifically homeschooling mother’s, the weight of planning our children’s goals and objectives for the year can often lead to us giving our own less importance.
Slowly but surely…
The Qur’an memorisation we made time for, now gets filled with lesson planning.
The promise of physical self-care gets replaced with copious amounts of coffee again.
Our own path of seeking knowledge suddenly comes to a halt.
But it doesn’t have to be this way. We need too and should prioritise our own goals too. And YES, you do have TIME!!
How? Here are a few tips.
Instead of separating the two, why not plan your goals alongside your homeschool goals? Pull out your Ramadan goals, and have them next to your while you are planning your year. That way, you can account for both and plan your daily routine in such a way where you give everything adequate time.
For example, if you made the intention to memorise Qur’an daily, why schedule this in at the same time as your children. Perhaps Stay awake after Fajr, give your children their hifdh portion, and while they are memorising, you can memorise too.
If you had a pile of books you intended to read, ensure you read snippets during the day. So while the kids are playing after your morning subjects are done, have a well-earned break and read a few pages; alternatively leave a little early to collect your child from Arabic class so you can read in the car while you wait. Don’t wait until the kids sleep to get your daily dose of reading in…it won’t always happen and eventually you will place the unread book back on the bookshelf.
My overall advice to myself first and foremost and you is to carefully look at those pockets of time, scribbling out anything unnecessary as well as ensuring you aren’t spending too much time in one area (homeschool prep can take over your life!!). Then add in your Ramadan goals and make these a priority and part of your daily routine.
Because these goals we made when we feeling spirituality uplifted can change the whole dynamics of our homeschool and ultimately our home life.
So pick up that pink highlighter and get writing. Don’t allow your Ramadan goals to be left in your planner until next Ramadan.